enthalpy

according to columbia encycloepedia....
enthalpy, measure of the heat content of a chemical or physical system; it is a quantity derived from the heat and work relations studied in thermodynamics. As a system changes from one state to another the enthalpy change, ΔH, is equal to the enthalpy of the products minus the enthalpy of the reactants.

dalam bahasa kita ianya adalah perubahan...

currently listen to the cranberries

I am currently listening to the cranberries...over and over again ...

Ode to my family
Dreams
Linger
When You're Gone
make me realized to hold on the love...appreaciate it..
love from mum..dad..families...friends...


Salvation
about salvation...
it a matter of how we see it...I take it as people who do drugs..maybe it's good for them to think about stop doing it..

Free to decide
Just my imagination
analyse
animal instinct

when i was way a lot younger, i used to think that cranberries is not delivering good messages through their songs...well, i guess as we grown up, we can think and intepret and still appreciate what is good and bad...

mr bond

bond in my car...

broken into pieces...

my almost two years old clock has broken into pieces..
bought it from IKEa store...
sad..but i think it's about time to change it to a new one...

this book

a very appropriate book for my sis...apart from her textbook ....haha

thanks to miss m

when i think of expressing something about someone...i remembered my younger sister...she was expressing about 'gadis bernama r'...
well, right now i wanna say something nice about miss m....

we can feel at ease we finally have the chance to express ourselves..
miss m was willing to be the listener...she listened...with an empathy face...
the irrationality that being spoke .....
the idiocracy....
the stupidity....
she just listened...
listening without judging...
a lot of us are tend to listen and have that face frown..and judge...
by all means... you are judging the person..

she said:
people around you...your mummy, daddy, family and friends...
they can only give you the advices and guide you...
you...
only you can do the thinking...
you decide what is best for you...
and whatever the consequences are...faced it...
faced it with strength....

thanks to miss maznah....

commitment

Rumors has it

heard that he was afraid of commitment...
heard that he cannot stayed focus at two things at a time...
heard that he is kind....
heard that he is good ....

maybe he was afraid
maybe he does not have the gut...
maybe he does not feel the same way...
damn right....

hepi

i still remembered my beloved aunt used to said "ti, we only live once...so, be happy...."
i guess she really have been through a lot at that age (of course)....and her advice is really a nice and a good one to be kept in mind...why worry?right?
the whole positive things is within you and you just need to shine the positive side of it....

people around you are trying to help you ....facing the real world....
trying to help you deal with life....
trying to help you to be happy and put that frown away...

i guess if we are trying to put a smile on the face of him...
maybe we should try one of these:

1. take him to a nice vacation..(beach, waterpark, waterfall)...let him choose where he wanted to be and with whom...

2. take him to a nice dinner or lunch with his best friend...only he and his friend...only you (yes, you ,the one that want to help, might try helping by planning it and maybe what's better is sponsored the whole dinner..)

3. he just want to speak out and want to be listen to...so, take him to whoever that he wished (whoever that he trusted and wanted to speak his heart out)...then, let him talk all night long with his friend...

4. ask him..what does he wanted to do at this moment?
does he want to just be asleep?
he might want have a karaoke session all by himself....


you might try one of those or if he still seems to not being happy, try all of it....
if all fails, do not blame yourselves...at least you have been trying...
maybe he need some other approach that he, himself do not know how to lighten up his life...
whatever it is, he someday, might be thankful to you for your effort....even if it's not really helped him ...