hepi

i still remembered my beloved aunt used to said "ti, we only live once...so, be happy...."
i guess she really have been through a lot at that age (of course)....and her advice is really a nice and a good one to be kept in mind...why worry?right?
the whole positive things is within you and you just need to shine the positive side of it....

people around you are trying to help you ....facing the real world....
trying to help you deal with life....
trying to help you to be happy and put that frown away...

i guess if we are trying to put a smile on the face of him...
maybe we should try one of these:

1. take him to a nice vacation..(beach, waterpark, waterfall)...let him choose where he wanted to be and with whom...

2. take him to a nice dinner or lunch with his best friend...only he and his friend...only you (yes, you ,the one that want to help, might try helping by planning it and maybe what's better is sponsored the whole dinner..)

3. he just want to speak out and want to be listen to...so, take him to whoever that he wished (whoever that he trusted and wanted to speak his heart out)...then, let him talk all night long with his friend...

4. ask him..what does he wanted to do at this moment?
does he want to just be asleep?
he might want have a karaoke session all by himself....


you might try one of those or if he still seems to not being happy, try all of it....
if all fails, do not blame yourselves...at least you have been trying...
maybe he need some other approach that he, himself do not know how to lighten up his life...
whatever it is, he someday, might be thankful to you for your effort....even if it's not really helped him ...